No-fault divorce has grown in popularity across the U.S. over more than a half-century since then-Gov. Ronald Reagan signed it into law in California back in 1969. Reagan, who had been through his own public divorce, said he believed no-fault divorce “is a step...
Divorce
Is your spouse quiet-quitting your marriage?
You might wonder if your spouse is disengaging from your marriage without explicitly saying so. Quiet-quitting refers to a gradual emotional and physical withdrawal from the partnership without overtly ending it. In marriage, this could mean a spouse doing the bare...
Should you tell your children’s school you are divorcing?
You may not feel great about getting a divorce. You might even wish you could keep it a secret from the whole world right now. If you have children they may be feeling the same. They might prefer that no one ever finds out that their parents are splitting up. However,...
Advice for selling a home owned by you and your soon-to-be ex
Generally, the most significant property division decision a divorcing couple makes is what to do with their home. Whether it’s the first home they bought or a large home where they’ve raised their family (or both), that decision can be a highly emotional one. The...
Spouses may have different money personality types
Spouses tend to have a lot in common. This is usually one of the main reasons for getting married in the first place. However, that doesn’t mean they are identical in every area. Broadly speaking, there are five money personality types. Spouses may fit into one of...
Is money the leading cause of divorce?
Finances are a large issue in many marriages. Many couples discuss how their money is spent, how much money should be saved, how money is split and how much is being made. Financial difficulties may not be the leading cause of divorces, with many being caused by...
Too much time apart could lead to divorce
Some couples get divorced because they spend too much time together. For example, married business owners may feel like combining their personal and professional lives has taken a toll. They see each other 24/7, and it leads to conflicts and frustrations....
Does your child think they caused your divorce?
No sane adult would think to blame their child for their divorce. Yet children aren’t adults. They have not developed the same capacity for reasoned thinking yet. Hence, it is not uncommon to find children who believe they are to blame for their parents getting...
Addressing home equity in a North Carolina divorce
Spouses tend to work together to accrue resources for their future financial comfort. Buying a marital home together is a perfect example of this practice. Spouses make sacrifices and commit huge amounts of their income for the acquisition and maintenance of their...
The importance of revising your estate plans post-divorce
Divorce often leads to far-reaching changes in various aspects of your life, from your financial situation to living arrangements. As such, updating your estate plans in line with these changes can help prevent unintended consequences. Here is why you should revise...